Mr. James Athenagoras Tsompanas, 60, passed away on April 14, 2026.
James was born on February 28, 1966, in Pontiac, Michigan, but grew up in Pittsburgh, California. He attended California State University. James served as an Army Ranger, then as sheriff in the Harford County Sheriffs Office, a federal agent for Homeland Security, FLETC, and protective service detail for the Secretary of Agriculture. He served in Iraq and Afghanistan. James had a passion for history, travel, RVing, and visiting National Parks.
He is preceded in death by his father, Rev. Constantine Tsompanas and brother, Emmanuel Tsompanas.
James is survived by his mother Mary Tsompanas, partner Kelly Lane and her daughter, Darby Willcockson, sons, Peter Tsompanas and Nicholas Tsompanas; sisters, Catherine Petropoulous and Francine Draneas; special friends, Chris Taylor, Rodney Gunter and Donnie Hopps; as well as numerous aunts, uncles, and cousins.
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Dr. Cynthia Barney
Praying for Kelly, Darby, and James’ family. James was an outstanding individual. He was loved by many friends in Maryland, especially his beautiful Kelly. May he continue to be loved through his legacy and honorable duties to the police force, military, and U.S. government.
Lynn Duckworth
Kelly, sending you my love, prayers and deepest sympathy on the passing of James.
Oma (Lynn Duckworth)
Tracey & Tim
Demetri had such an impact of everyone around him. He lived in and shared joy with all. He will be missed deeply. Kelly and Darby, you are not alone.
Julie Bruce
I so very sorry to learn of Jim’s passing and so very sorry for your loss. I hadn’t talked to him in a long time but have always thought of him as a good friend..
Rodney Gunter
God speed my brother.
The White Family
Kelly & Family,
Please accept our deepest condolences. May you all remember God’s promise at Revelation 21:3,4…” and death will be no more..”
The White Family
Kelly & Family,
We are so very sorry to hear this sad news. Please accept our deepest condolences. May you all remember God’s promise at Revelation 21:3,4…” and death will be no more..”
Mark and Terry
In the short time we had the pleasure to know the “D-Man” it was an instant friendship. He truly would give you the shirt off his back, cook as if he was catering for 50 people and there were only 8, and just a great all around person, who put everyone before himself. The love that he had for Kelly was visible to all. May you rest in peace our sweet friend. You carved a space on our hearts that will never be forgotten.
Patti Hoey
Dear Kelly. I’m so sad and my heart hurts for you. Look for Cardinals. They can b a symbol that Demitri is watching over you and is near. I knew him only as a kind and gentle man with a ready smile. I’m very happy that you found each other and enjoyed so many adventures together. So much Love, Patti Hoey
Steve Poort
Rest easy brother. You will never be forgotten. Many good memories my friend. We are praying for your family.